Interfaith Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah Resources
To Bar Mitzvah or not to Bar Mitzvah, that is the question. Need some help? Want to learn ways to make your child's special day inclusive for the whole family?
Find out how other families have handled these issues in InterfaithFamily.com's selection of articles, resources and links.
Helpful Interfaith Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah Documents
- Bar/Bat Mitzvah Ideas and Primer for Interfaith Families (PDF) (For Word document, click here. )
Recommended Interfaith Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah Articles
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Interfaith Families and Bar/Bat Mitzvah: Questions and Opportunities by Rabbi Arthur Nemitoff
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Bat Mitzvah Battles With My Atheist Husband by Jennifer North
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A Son's Bar Mitzvah, A Father's Discovery by Brian Hickey
For previous Web Magazine issues on interfaith Bar Mitzvahs and Bat Mitzvahs, click on the links below:
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Issue 183 (May 2006)
- Issue 144 (October 2004)
- Issue 87 (June 2002)
- Issue 83 (April 2002)
- Issue 35 (April 2000)
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Issue 6 (February 1999)
Discussion Board
Additional Interfaith Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah Resources
Websites
Visit our partner MyJewishLearning.com for more information on Bar Mitzvahs and Bat Mitzvahs:
Books
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Friedland, Ronnie and Case, Edmund, ed. The Guide to Jewish Interfaith Family Life: An InterfaithFamily.com Handbook. Jewish Lights, 2001. Read a review.
- Cohen, Jayne and Lori Weinrott. The Ultimate Bar/Bat Mitzvah Celebration Book: A Guide to Inspiring Ceremonies and Joyous Festivities
. Clarkson Potter, 2004. Read our review.
- Greenberg, Gail. MitzvahChic: How to Host a Meaningful, Fun, Drop-Dead Gorgeous Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Fireside, 2006.
- Leneman, Cantor Helen, ed. Bar/Bat Mitzvah Basics: A Practical Family Guide to Coming of Age Together
. Jewish Lights Publishing, 2001.
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Salkin, Rabbi Jeffrey K. Putting God on the Guest List
. Jewish Lights Publishing, 1993. This book explains the spirituality and meaning of the Bar Mitzvah and the origin of the ceremony and suggests way to incorporate non-Jewish family members into the ceremony.
If you know of other Bar and Bat Mitzvah resources--or if you'd like to see additional resources on a particular aspect of Bar Mitzvahs or Bat Mitzvahs--please email us at network@interfaithfamily.com and let us know what you'd like us to provide.
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